Clear Parent/Child Communication Essenti...
By Rosalind Sedacca, CDC Children tend not to tell you when they are angry, resentful, confused, hurt or depressed. Instead, they reflect their problems through their behavior - acting out or perhaps turning inward in ways that you have not experienced prior to the divorce. Check out these tips for seeing the world through your child's eyes and communicating effectively with them during and after divorce: 1. Asking why can be intimidating and close off your conversation. Instead, ask what happened questions, which keep the dialogue open. 2. Be patient. Don't react or respond until you get the full message. Sometimes it takes some meandering for your child to reach the crucial point of what they want to say. Don't shut them off too soon! 3. Remember that preaching, moralizing or "parenting" comments can put up barriers to clear communication. Listening is your most valuable skill and tool. 4. Watch
